Friday, July 09, 2010

A Place to Vent

I have "friended" some of my former in-laws on Facebook, all people I know and at least like. I have also "friended" some of my nieces and nephews from his side of the family, all young people I genuinely love and care about, as well as one of my sons.

Therefore, I no longer feel comfortable venting about my ex-husband on Facebook. I referred to him as "the idiot" a couple of weeks or so ago, forgetting who all could see what I wrote, and my son and my niece gently chided me about it.

Soooooooooo, I am thankful for this blog.

Because, HERE, I can say:

A. He is an ass.
B. He hasn't got a freakin' clue about how to act like a decent human being.
C. I will continue to attempt to take the high road regardless of how stupid he acts.
D. I refuse to allow him to intimidate me.

AND....

E. If he isn't careful, with all the extra money I'm earning this summer, I will call my lawyer and kick his smarmy ass. Legally, of course.


Thank you for allowing me to vent.
Have a nice weekend.

J.

8 comments:

Poppy said...

I don't vent in public about my ex, except the stray comment on a blog post that strikes a chord. I am "friends" with Dawg's ex who he is still friendly with, but as time goes on it's more of a headache than it is an exercise in bonding. sigh.

Hoosier Girl said...

I really didn't do it that often on Facebook, because I WAS aware that Daniel (my 16 yr. old) is one of my "friends" and I didn't want to hurt his feelings. But now that I am "friends" with my nieces and nephews AND one of his brothers, it's just not politically correct. That's why I love my blog. None of them know about it!


J.

Brother Dave said...

What "legal" issues (if I may ask) are there for which you could go after him?

metalmom said...

I love that I keep the blog from all the family and in-laws. They all know that I have one but I told them that I am shy about people actually reading my 'work' (LMAO!! ME...SHY!!) Thankfully they don't give a shit enough to ask further!

Palm Springs Savant said...

I stopped using FB because it was creeping me out. Good thing you still have your blog to vent!

eatmisery said...

Thank goodness for the blog! Vent all you want here, Honey!

Just Dave said...

Yeah, I sometimes forget about who can read my comments on FB, too. Oh, I don't rant about my ex (she died in 1986, long after we got over being mad at each other). I am an incurable flirt and I forget that my wife can see my comments. Oh, well, she knows I'm all bark-lol.

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