tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29872596.post7457434334604357863..comments2024-01-11T05:11:04.669-05:00Comments on The Coffee Table: Sometimes Being a Bitch is Such a Bummer........Jodihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07090159134556212125noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29872596.post-18712887926904016792009-07-20T06:55:28.822-04:002009-07-20T06:55:28.822-04:00Bad guy? No, you were just being a great mom.Bad guy? No, you were just being a great mom.Faiqahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14195313677689473346noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29872596.post-15717395372607566412009-07-19T11:58:29.121-04:002009-07-19T11:58:29.121-04:00Oh I am soooo with you on this! *sigh*
If only we...Oh I am soooo with you on this! *sigh*<br />If only we didn't have to pull out the heavy artillery! But as other said, it's out lot in life. :) Needless to say, I can't stand it either. I'm a much better 'happy mom' LOL...janjan0000https://www.blogger.com/profile/16930904853003651852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29872596.post-78144510098547942912009-07-18T23:47:20.517-04:002009-07-18T23:47:20.517-04:00Where did you get such awful kids? .. just kiddin...Where did you get such awful kids? .. just kidding.<br /><br />You're the "bad guy" because you love 'em. And some day they will thank you.e.Craig Crawfordhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04645546681555860747noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29872596.post-10619020409046957202009-07-18T17:21:42.826-04:002009-07-18T17:21:42.826-04:00its not easy being a good parent. Down the rtoad, ...its not easy being a good parent. Down the rtoad, it will pay off in spades, when your kids grow up to be well-adjusted God-fearing citizens who will always do the right thing and make you proud.Rick Rockhillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06856000993966687796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29872596.post-51973755559084065732009-07-18T09:42:01.890-04:002009-07-18T09:42:01.890-04:00I do not envy you your required discipline duties....I do not envy you your required discipline duties.<br /><br />If the cats are bad I can choose to ignore their minor infraction and give them hugs and kisses instead.Poppyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00059516280044760920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29872596.post-38515601822234015082009-07-17T14:43:43.203-04:002009-07-17T14:43:43.203-04:00"your time is coming"
Yes, yes it is......"your time is coming"<br /><br />Yes, yes it is.... hopefully I will be able to 'hang in there' too.Sushiboyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04896496364940804764noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29872596.post-76112308118214495732009-07-17T12:09:33.418-04:002009-07-17T12:09:33.418-04:00Children, as we know, always try their limits. And...Children, as we know, always try their limits. And, as my Mother always said, "behave like children,"<br /><br />When we sent our kids to their room we told them "you can come out of your room when you have done some thinking and are ready to explain/discuss what got you there and what would have been a better way to have handled your behavior."<br /><br />The kids pretty much know what is the correct thing to say. They just need to figure out how they are going to verbalize it.<br /><br />The more time in their room, the less punishment it becomes. They find something else to do because they are stuck there. When the "time in the room" prevents them from doing what they had been planning to do immediately, the punishment means more.<br /><br />When the kids are ready to talk about it, everyone (including Mom and/or Dad) are calmer, and meaningful dialog can occur. The kids get a chance to verbalize positive thoughts and cannot spend their time sulking.<br /><br />Anyway, it seemed to work for us.<br /><br />Nonetheless, they are basically good kids who demonstrate the usual behaviors of children.<br /><br />BTW, I enjoy my advanced age because there is less peer pressure.Brother Davehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00064468156938526884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29872596.post-48987072099318432862009-07-17T09:27:15.211-04:002009-07-17T09:27:15.211-04:00Oh I hear you baby! Zak always pushes Gameboys but...Oh I hear you baby! Zak always pushes Gameboys buttons to the limit too! Always ends in tears! BOYS!!!! Mind you today Gameboy has come home with a crooked nose! He hit heads with another kid and came out worse!!!karismahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02529919522651147308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29872596.post-89180683500505009172009-07-17T09:11:28.509-04:002009-07-17T09:11:28.509-04:00Sayre - Oh, baby, don't even get me started on...<b>Sayre</b> - Oh, baby, don't even get me started on being the "fun" parent. It's times like those that I would like to kick my ex in the ass - hard. He has gotten off scott-free for 7 years. I spend my money on necessities - he spends his on fun stuff. Oooooh...sorry, I can feel myself getting really fired up. I'll stop now.<br /><br /><b>Lisa</b> - I just hate it when it seems like EVERYONE is mad at me at the same time.<br /><br /><b>Sushi</b> - I know, I know. You just wait - your time is coming. Teenagers can be really hostile sometimes.<br /><br /><b>Karisma</b> - Aaron kinda got what was coming to him - he was standing at the bathroom door, pushing on it, yelling at Daniel. Daniel pushed back, hard. Hence: the smashed nose.<br /><br /><b>Jay</b> - Oh yes I would. When I found your playboys under your bed!<br /><br />J.Jodihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07090159134556212125noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29872596.post-32478105665198171692009-07-16T23:24:15.835-04:002009-07-16T23:24:15.835-04:00You would never be bitchy to me. Cause I'm a ...You would never be bitchy to me. Cause I'm a good boy. ;-)Jayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17134850383532818765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29872596.post-7672707181933213392009-07-16T18:56:20.388-04:002009-07-16T18:56:20.388-04:00I don't think you were being a bitch at all. I...I don't think you were being a bitch at all. I think you were just being a mum. My heart was breaking for poor Aaron though. I really hate it when the kids hit each other. Especially if it ends in one being hurt.<br /><br />I had a day like that this week too! I dealt with it in a very mature way I did! I chucked a tanty and screamed at them! This is so out of character for me that the shock brought them all back down to earth. I then had 24 hours of perfect children! Oh my!karismahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02529919522651147308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29872596.post-25996665794030764322009-07-16T18:09:35.244-04:002009-07-16T18:09:35.244-04:00Ugh. Well you're doing the right thing. Kids...Ugh. Well you're doing the right thing. Kids have plenty of friends. Kids really need parents. <br /><br />Hang in there.Sushiboyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04896496364940804764noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29872596.post-40527702479248218352009-07-16T15:39:58.516-04:002009-07-16T15:39:58.516-04:00I think it is the Mommy's Lot. I'm the on...I think it is the Mommy's Lot. I'm the one who has to discipline and correct in my house. My husband likes being my son's FRIEND much more than being his dad. Which makes me the bad guy a lot. <br /><br />On the upside, he trusts that I will do the right thing as much as possible and will take care of whatever comes up. When he wakes scared in the night, it's me he calls. And he tells me he loves me every day. He understands that I do what I need to - even if he doesn't always like it.<br /><br />Still - it would be fun to be the fun parent sometimes.Sayrehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16350593991157139017noreply@blogger.com